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It's mostly just me talking...to myself. It's cheaper than therapy and safer than leaving a diary hanging around the house. I will try really hard to not be whiny or boring but no promises. I can be a real slug. pregnancy week by week

Monday, July 17, 2006

so yeah, women and affairs

so basically i have no idea. but i think that women have affairs due to lack of emotional connection. now this is kind of crude but some ladies i know were talking about the act of oral sex. and they mostly said they didnt do it for their fella and the reasoning was because they didnt feel that connection on an emotional level and that oral sex was something very intimate. so this is a little off track of the whole affairs thing but women want to be happy, i assume men do to but there has been some breakdown in the process. women want to feel wanted, emotionally and sexually. not like "i want you to give me head" but like "i want to be close to you." the problem is, i dont think this can ever happen. if you think about cheating and you call exboyfriends when your boyfriend/husband etc pisses you off and you go out drinking with the girls...are you going to cheat? will you cheat? maybe, maybe not.

all i know is that men are slow learners. beyond slow. slugs if you will.

i have a headache man. and he's 6 foot 4 inches and wants oral sex. i am going to take two advils and blog you in the morning.

posted by Kerry @ 11:00 AM  

1 Comments:

  • At 3:04 PM, Blogger Metro said…

    I think it was Dan Savage who said that the problem is that for women, giving and receiving oral sex is a highly intimate act, whereas for men receiving oral sex is (often?) about power, though not neccessarily any less intimate.

    Neither of which is any excuse. You give head 'cos you feel like it--and receive it 'cos you feel like it too. If you don't, don't.

    As for why people have affairs? Perhaps in the end it's that unfulfilled longing for someone who can touch us deeply and not be repulsed, that desire for something not bound by the conditions of the relationship, and which may only be fulfilled outside it.

    Nearly sixty percent of North Americans appear to agree with me, apparently, according to Kinsey (via Wordscapes).

    Says dreadful things about loneliness in partnerships, doesn't it?

     

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